I won't feel bad about not sharing a snack with my kid. That's mine and they get plenty of special foods they enjoy.
Today...
I'll go ahead and vacuum/sweep up a couple of errant Lego pieces, because I've reminded often enough.
Today...
I'll let my kids watch extra TV so I can read a little, because my mental health is important too.
Today...
I'll play Classic Rock in the car instead of something conventionally "kid friendly" because sometimes you just need Metallica.
Today...
I'll let playing in the hose count as bath time.
Today...
I'll hug and kiss my kids a little extra and not hesitate to tell them I love them.